Minding Your Own Business
Dorothea has hit on one of my pet peeves–proselytizers. I don’t care what your cause is–childbearing, vegetarianism, Mormonism, (non-)smoking, or alien abduction. It’s rude–unforgiveably rude–to break into someone else’s conversation for the sole purpose of telling everyone else that they are wrong and you are right. Not to mention the fact that very few people convert to a cause because of a shouting match.
This reminds me of a conversation I had with some co-workers a while ago. We were talking about ways to avoid discussing God with people who knock on your door. I said that I don’t understand why they bother proselytizing in the first place; you can’t force belief on someone. One woman said “Well, every religion proselytizes.” Not true, I contended. “Name one,” she countered. So I did–Judaism. “So how to you make converts,” she asked. The answer is, we don’t. If you want to convert, you have to take the initiative yourself and ask a rabbi. Otherwise, we leave you alone.
Get the point?