So, I am trying to figure out where my non-working, non-gaming, non-sleeping time goes. Here’s what I’ve got so far–
1. Housework. I’m doing all of it. Ed doesn’t cook, clean, or launder. This is partly because he’s not motivated and partly because he simply doesn’t see what needs to be done because it isn’t food or dangerous. Or moving. I’m a little unclear on that, but you get the picture. He does do the outdoor work, mowing the lawn and such, but I often find myself helping with that as well. He’s been sick on and off all winter, so I ended up doing most of the snow-shoveling–which, I might add, is unpleasantly like exercise. I also run all the household errands, which counts as housework, but involves travel time, standing-in-line-time, and occasionally dealing-with-idiots-time as well. Ed procrastinates a lot better than I do, which is definitely an unfair advantage.
2. The Lab. This is completely voluntary on my part, but that doesn’t make it any less time-consuming. In addition to the three weekly meetings/work sessions, I often find myself doing other tasks for the lab when I’m at home, such as catch-up reading, document work, database work, etc.
3. Other projects. This is an ever-growing list, and unfortunately, several of them are turning out to be long-term or ongoing. Right now, the list includes helping Alisa edit her cookbook (long idle, both our faults); helping Lolly write scripts for her radio program (in fits and starts, mostly fits), building a digital portfolio for my-cousin-the-ceramicist (long overdue), helping Kathy move out of her apartment (nearly done; the apartment walkthrough is today) while she is living in Philadelphia, or maybe Baton Rouge now (her job gets her moved around a lot); working on a quilt for one friend (originally intended to be a wedding present, now I am shooting for *cough*th anniversary); working on a baby blanket for a friend who’s due in May; and trying to rehab, rescue, and resuscitate some of my old clothes that I don’t want to get rid of, or maybe even make some new ones.
My latest project hasn’t started yet. My mother teaches for one of the schools run by a local ballet company, Ballet Internationale. BI doesn’t have a database for the students in their classes, so my mother suggested that they get one, and she knew just the person to do it. Guess who. Now, I’m not going to argue that it’s a bad idea, or that they don’t need a database, and I don’t mind doing it, especially because it’s paying work. After all, I do need something to keep me busy in my copious free time. However, I would have liked to have known about it before BI did.
I’d go on, but for some reason, I haven’t the time.