Game WISH #80
Saturday, January 10th, 2004I’m honored and touched to have been mentioned by name in this one. And thanks to everyone for their support and sympathy!
How do you go about finding a new gaming group?
I’ve tried a couple of ways. The least successful (not tried recently) is to date gamers until you find a group you like. I don’t recommend this method, as in my experience, it tends to make your gaming life AND your love life more complicated.
The way I met most of the people I currently game with (and I am gaming again–woo-hoo!) is by going to a meeting of the Bloomington Role-Playing Game Association back when I was a lowly undergrad at Indiana University. I’ve been gaming with Rob, Dorothea, and David on and off ever since. Others have come and gone, some have come and stayed. In my little world, there are a pool of gamers, and most of any given group I’m in is from that pool. Every so often, a new person joins the pool. This means that I can still game with the people I like, without having to deal with ones who got me kicked out of Doug’s Friday night game.
Gamer networking is my preferred method of finding new groups. Gamers seem to have a tendency to find each other; either electronically or in person. And is there any long-time gamer out there who hasn’t developed “game-dar?” When networking fails, I’ll start recruiting non-gaming friends. I’ll bet I’ve made more converts than your average door-to-door proselytizer.